Adina Nicola

You might not know this about me, but I recently rediscovered my passion for singing. Back in school, I was told I couldn’t sing, which led me to keep my voice silent for many years. However, life has a way of surprising us, and I’ve embraced the joy of music once again, starting singing lessons with the incredible Jane Burnell,  Just a month ago, I created a viral self-love song at a festival in the stunning Andalusia region of southern Spain. The overwhelming response I received was both thrilling and humbling!

After experiencing so much joy and enthusiasm from festival-goers, I contacted my dear friend and talented music producer Mason Toryen. He was enormously supportive and eager to help me bring this song to life. We were able to record it in Izmir, Turkey, a place that adds its own unique flavor to our collaboration. Now, I’m ecstatic to share that just three weeks later, the song is ready for you to enjoy!

I’ve been truly touched by the hundreds of people who approached me to express how this song impacted their lives. The themes of self-love and acceptance resonate with so many of us, and it’s a reminder that we are not alone in our journeys. Music has the unique ability to connect us, and I hope this song serves as a source of inspiration and comfort for you.

Download My Viral Self-Love Song Now!

If you’d like to join me on this musical adventure, click here to download the track and support my journey! Every contribution helps, and all money raised on this platform will be reinvested into future song production. You’ll also be the first to know about my next song release, which I’m getting very excited about already.

My goal is to raise €2000 to record my next song, and every bit of support—no matter how small or large—makes a significant difference.

Thank you for your love and blessings! I truly hope you enjoy the song; I poured my heart and soul into it. Your support means the world to me!

 

I don’t pay bills, I just pay flight tickets to visit my friends.

Sometimes, not even that. I get invited to places because my presence adds value and because I value experience. Creating a beautiful experience together.

But maybe you’re wondering how can I add sooo much value that someone will just invite me into their home, offer me food and sometimes even pay the flight tickets too?

Well, one thing I do that NO ONE does this days is to LISTEN in a nonjudgmental way and hold space for them. This brings them peace of mind and relaxation.

Second, I say thank you for the trust and for the sharing.

Then maybe I reflect back with one of my experiences of a similar situation which gives them a sense of belonging.

Then we create an uplifting experience together. I make it clear that my intention when connecting with someone is to expand each others life in the best way we can.

Then there is an exchange – which doesn’t always have to be of equal measure or even in same currency. But it is something that will be valued by both of us.

I truly believe that each person that I meet has a gift for me and I have a gift for them. The gift can be anything a person feels like offering that will expand both of our lives.

Next, I follow up with them even when we are apart and check in on how they’re doing.

Treating people like humans with feelings is the best you can do and will serve you to create your best life.

Life is better with friends than alone. Make them feel important and show them how they matter to you.

Don’t promise things you can’t deliver, keep your word and make surprises.

Instead of blocking, deleting and ignoring, be present. It makes the difference.

What do you think?

 You might not know this about me, but I love singing and always imagine myself singing in front of big crowds.

My Fear of Singing

But then, I would only sing alone in my bedroom or in the shower – never in front of people.

Why did I never sing in front of people?

Because I have a belief about myself that I don’t have a good voice or that my message is not good enough.

I was afraid that I’m gonna be rejected or humiliated if someone hears me – but at the same time, I secretly long for people to hear me.

I’ve composed many songs and just recorded them on my phone and never shared them with people.

But earlier this year, I made a vow to share my voice at every opportunity I get.

The Festival Moment

Then a few months later, I found myself at the @ibizatantrafestival to share my magic and speak about my projects.

On the first day, I met a friend @benjamin_zech and he challenged me to sing the song for him.

So I said: “Really? you wanna hear it?” He made me feel so seen and desired that I felt confident to share it with him.

So I started to sing my very cheezy song.

The next day he comes to me and sings my song back to me and  told me how it impacted him and touched his heart deeply. He said that it’ss a really powerful song, I should sing it in front of the entire festival of almost five hundred people.

Again, I was surprised! “Really? You think it’s that good?”

He said yes which really empowered me and motivated me to sing it in front of everyone.

Two days later I was getting excited about the idea and asked for the microphone in one of the morning meetings.

The whole crowd was watching me … I could almost hear their thoughts: “What is she gonna do? Sing? Really?”

Yes, the energy was weird, all eyes on me and people didn’t know what to expect as no one has ever seen me sing before.

I closed my eyes and I started singing from my heart.

Before I even finished the last line of the song, people started screaming and applauding. I smiled

What I learned

It was like a dream come true. I realised that confidence is not about appearance but an inner feeling from my heart: I’m loved no matter what.

I’m now taking my singing more seriously, getting online lessons from the lovely @janeburnellsoprano

Did you ever do something you never did before and it turn out well? Let me know about it!

How to get everything you want and increase your personal growth? Prioritise yourself!

I know, we all want a saviour. We want someone to just come and take us out of our misery, but that never really happens.

Your friends want what’s best for them

People that love you usually really want what’s best for them.

When people say that they love you, what they often mean is that they love the way you make them feel—the comfort, validation, or energy you bring into their lives. Your presence reinforces something important for them, so any change in you can feel like a threat to that balance. The moment you start to shift, grow, or prioritise your own needs, it can feel unsettling, because it naturally means less time, less attention, or less energy available for them.

That’s why, consciously or not, they may prefer you to remain the same—to keep showing up in the same ways, filling the same roles, and meeting the same expectations. They might never stop to consider whether your cup is full, or whether you are truly nourished by the exchange.

And to be honest, why would they question it? It has always been easier for people to accept what benefits them than to encourage change that disrupts the dynamic. Ultimately, holding yourself to the standard you know you deserve, and ensuring you are not running on empty, is your responsibility and no one else’s. It’s an act of self-respect to take ownership of that, even if it means disappointing those who would rather you didn’t change.

Prioritise yourself

No one wants victims, but everyone wants heroes.

But this is not about heroes and victims, this is you being yourself and treating others with kindness and support while holding to the standard of life you want to live. Love yourself first.

If you’re miserable, it’s nobody else’s fault . People in your life only reflect back your own self worth and self respect. You need to prioritise yourself to increase your personal growth

I know you’ve probably heard this a thousands times, but it’s still true.

“Your outside world is a reflection of your inside world.“

New 1:1 packages coming soon

Think about that. I’m soon going to be offering personalised one to one packages where I’m gonna help you rebuild your world from the inside out. Follow me on Instagram to keep in touch!